I
The Agreeable Override
You say yes before your body has had time to answer.
The book
The Unbecoming
A five-part, self-paced process for women who can feel the distance between how they appear and how they are.
What it is
It works through the adaptations you built to get here: composure, anticipation, usefulness. Each part looks at what trained that adaptation into you, what it protected, and what it costs to keep running it.
It begins with twenty questions. They show which adaptation you rely on most, and which part of the book to read first.
How it works
Twenty questions, answered in a few minutes.
Your result names the adaptation you run most often.
It sends you to the part of the book written for it, rather than starting you at page one.
The four profiles
II
The Composed Override
You stay calm so the people around you can.
III
The Capable Override
You handle it before anyone has to ask.
IV
The Pleasant Override
You make others feel lighter and pay for it later.
The letter
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